- What am I infected with?
- Transmission
- Vaccination
- Testing
- How risky is sexually-transmitted HPV?
- Warts
- Cancer
- Cervical Cancer
- Other types of cancer
- How much protection do condoms offer?
- Social norming
- Other facts that may be useful
What am I infected with?
I'm infected with HPV, or human papillomavirus (Wikipedia). It's quite common.1 There are over 200 strains — about 50 of the strains are sexually transmitted, and the rest just live on your skin. Most HPV infections have no symptoms and clear on their own (90% of women clear it within 2 years), but some strains cause genital warts and some can lead to cancer.
(In fact, all warts are caused by some strain of HPV.2 Supposedly the strains that cause cancer are distinct from the ones that cause warts.3)
The strains of HPV that people pay the most attention to are:
- Highest risk for cervical cancer: HPV-16 and HPV-18
- Most common cause of genital warts: HPV-6 and HPV-11
There are ~16 strains that are linked to causing cervical cancer.4
When I first tested positive for HPV in 2021, Kaiser told me that I had one of the strains in the "second tier" of risk for cervical cancer (i.e., not HPV-16 or 18). The exact language from my test results:
Specimen is POSITIVE for any one or combination of HPV DNA type 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 66, and/or 685
I've bolded the five strains that the Gardasil 9 vaccine guards against (more on vaccines below). When I was quite young, I received the original Gardasil vaccine, which only guards against 6, 11, 16, and 18. Gardasil 9 is a newer vaccine that guards against those four as well as 31, 33, 45, 52, & 58. (Since learning I was infected, I've completed the Gardasil 9 vaccine series to broaden my protection going forward.)
Unfortunately, tests for HPV are done in clusters, so it is hard to pinpoint exactly what strain you have. From 2021–2024, I tested negative for HPV 16/18 but positive for one of the other oncogenic strains. However, in 2025, my pap came with slightly different clustering: they tested for HPV 16 separately, and then tested the cluster HPV 18 and/or HPV 45. I came back positive for that second cluster.
Given that I was vaccinated against HPV 18 (twice) and had never tested positive for it previously, this means we have most likely identified the culprit strain: HPV-45.
I'm still trying to see if I can get one of the older tests run (that cluster HPV 16/18) to confirm. And there's also always the chance that I am co-infected with an additional oncogenic strain that may or may not be covered by Gardasil 9.
Some weak additional evidence: I dated a rather sexually prolific partner for several years and have hooked up somewhat regularly with other partners in the Bay Area for several years, and I have not heard of any reports of my partners' partners becoming infected with HPV, which might be slight evidence that the Gardasil 9 vaccine (which my ex received when he started dating me and which many women and some men already have) is protective against my strain. Or maybe everyone's immune systems are stronger than mine, or maybe my metamours haven't gone in for their pap smears recently?
Transmission
HPV is highly transmissible! Mostly, it is spread via penetrative sex, but there is some concern that you can catch oral versions via oral sex or even deep kissing. However, my sense is that this is quite unlikely? Chapter 6: Epidemiology and transmission dynamics of genital HPV infection, Table 3 includes 4 studies on "Oral HPV infection associated with oral sex," and it doesn't look like any of them find a clear connection between oral sex and infection with oral HPV.6
Vaccination
HPV vaccination is recommended for everyone — the CDC recommends it for all children at age 11–12. It was originally only recommended for girls in 2006, and then in 2011 it was also recommended for boys.7 However, in my experience, doctors are much more rigorous about ensuring that women get the vaccine. So most women will have received the Gardasil or Gardasil 9 vaccine already, but many men may not have. You should check your records!
I would strongly encourage men to get the vaccine. Why not help prevent the spread of the highest risk strains and protect yourself too? If you are a man and your doctor resists, you can point them to the updated guidance, or just tell them you're poly and have a lot of sexual partners — I had one partner face this, but after learning more, the doctor was willing to give the vaccine. Note that if you're over 26, it's not always covered by insurance.
The Gardasil 9 vaccine is 3 shots spread out over several months: after your first shot, you get your second shot at month 1 or 2, and the final shot at month 6.
Testing
I'm tested for HPV each year when I go in for my pap smear, to see if it has cleared. This is usually in the summer for me. There is no routine testing for men.
There do seem to be some testing options available to men — anal pap smears and PCR skin swabs (either from urethra or penile skin) — I haven't looked into the details or reliability of these.8 It's also worth noting that some testing may not be that useful: PCR testing in particular can pick up all kinds of HPV that just hang out on your skin and aren't sexually-transmitted, which might cause unnecessary alarm without being that useful.9
How risky is sexually-transmitted HPV?
Warts
I won't focus much on this, because the type I have does not cause warts. Beyond HPV-6 and HPV-11, there are other strains that cause warts, but I've read claims that those two strains cause ~90% of genital warts.
Cancer
Cancer is the main risk from oncogenic strains like the one I have:
"Infections can also persist and cause cell abnormalities that in a small number of cases can develop into cancers. The biggest risk is to those who have cervixes, because the cervix is more susceptible to these changes. However, HPV cancers can also affect the oral region, and less commonly the penis, anus, scrotum, vagina and vulva." —r/HPV
HPV can affect the cervical region & other genital regions because of the types of cells HPV lives in:
"HPV lives in thin, flat cells called epithelial cells. These are found on the skin's surface. They're also found on the surface of the vagina, anus, vulva, cervix and head of the penis. They're also found inside the mouth and throat." —WebMD
Actually, I don't quite get this — epithelial cells are basically just skin surface cells, and they are everywhere? So why don't we see HPV-caused cancer everywhere in the body?
After reading this, a friend sent me this quote about HPV from Medical Microbiology by Ryan and Ray: "there is a predilection for infection at the junction of squamous and columnar epithelium (e.g. in the cervix and anus)." I don't really understand this, but it seems like a useful pointer if you want to dive in more.
Cervical Cancer
According to the CDC:
"About 10% of women with HPV infection on their cervix will develop long-lasting HPV infections that put them at risk for cervical cancer." —CDC — Basic Information about HPV and Cancer
Also, while it's common to catch high-risk strains of HPV, progression to cancer is rare:
"With a lifetime risk of high-risk human papillomavirus (hrHPV) infection around 80% and less than 1% of those infections leading to cervical cancer, the development of a cervical carcinoma is a rare complication of hrHPV infection." —Infection to Cancer — Finding Useful Biomarkers for Predicting Risk of Progression to Cancer
HPV-16 and HPV-18 cause about 70% of cervical cancers,10 and Gardasil 9 covers five strains that are responsible for another ~15% of cases:11
"Around 12 types of HPV are considered high risk for cancer of the cervix. Two of these types (HPV 16 and HPV 18) cause about 7 out of 10 (70%) cervical cancer cases." —Risks and Causes of Cervical Cancer
"The 9-valent HPV vaccine protects against HPV types 16 and 18, which cause about 66% of cervical cancers and most other HPV-attributable cancers in the United States, and five additional cancer-causing types, which account for about 15% of cervical cancers. It also protects against HPV 6 and 11, which cause most anogenital warts." —CDC — Administering HPV Vaccine
So, if my partner has the Gardasil 9 vaccine, they're protected from the types which cause ~85% of cervical cancer cases.
~12,000 women in the U.S. are diagnosed with cervical cancer each year, ~4,000 women die from cervical cancer each year, and there are ~170 million women in the U.S. Here's some basic math:
- Annual incidence rate: 12,000 / 170,000,000 = 0.0071% or 7.1 per 100,000 women
- Annual mortality rate: 4,000 / 170,000,000 = 0.0024% or 2.4 per 100,000 women
- Case fatality rate: 4,000 / 12,000 = 33.33%12
Here's a toy population model (still need to clean it up) starting with the assumption that we have 100,000 women who get cancer from high-risk strains:
So, if I have HPV-45 as I suspect, I think I have about a 1 in 500 chance of dying from it. The Gardasil-9 vaccine has 97% efficacy against preventing transmission.14 So assuming my partner is vaccinated and their partner is vaccinated, that means partners-of-my-partners will have a roughly 1 in 500,000 chance of dying from my strain.15
I also think this is a conservative overestimate of risk, for a few reasons. First, less than 1% of HPV infections turn into cancer (I'm not sure how much less). Second, screening regularly offers additional protection:
"Cervical cancer is considered a preventable disease. Screening reduces the mortality of this cancer by identifying and treating precancerous lesions at a lower stage. Also, performing a single cervical cancer screening test in a lifetime reduces this cancer by 25–36%."16
Screening is likely already partially reflected in my numbers, given that we're talking about the U.S. But if women are diligent about going in for their pap smear every three years (or annually if positive for HPV), I expect they'll do better than average. There's a 91% 5-year relative survival rate for cervical cancer caught early,17 and abnormal cells turn into cancer quite slowly (over 10–20 years), so I expect annual screening will put you in that early detection bucket.
(Also, death rates will likely decrease over time as we develop better detection, treatment, etc. You may put more weight on this if you think AI will have transformative impacts on medical research over the next 10–20 years.)
I basically think partners with the Gardasil-9 vaccine should not be that concerned here. I do sometimes feel scared that I have this risk of death, now that I've got this strain that's sticking around. I'm not sure if I'm already in the 10% who have "long-lasting" infections, but I have had my HPV since at least 2021, possibly longer. And even if death is unlikely, it's possible some uncomfortable treatments for pre-cancerous tissue could be in my future, if my body doesn't clear this.
I may be crunching the numbers wrong — I'm not an epidemiologist, so if you're stronger at this kind of analysis, I'd appreciate anyone double-checking my numbers. For instance, I'm not quite sure how to include (or if I need to include) the likelihood that partners may not contract my strain of HPV (let alone then pass it on to further partners), independent of vaccination status.18
Other types of cancer
For now, I've focused on cervical cancer, since it's much more common. However, this footnote has some numbers on rates of other types of cancer that HPV can cause long-term.19 I'd like to have some better numbers for "if you catch my strain of HPV, what's the chance you'd develop a different type of cancer?"
According to this source:
"HPV can cause six types of cancer: These include anal cancer, cervical cancer, oropharyngeal cancer, penile cancer, vaginal cancer, and vulvar cancer."
From that same source:
- "Over 90% of anal cancer is caused by HPV."
- "Most oropharyngeal cancer (70%) is caused by HPV."
- "Most penile cancer (63%) is caused by HPV."
- "Most vaginal cancer (75%) is caused by HPV."
- "Most vulvar cancer (69%) is caused by HPV."
How much protection do condoms offer?
There's mixed evidence.
- Manhart 2002 was a meta-analysis of 20 studies. They found no conclusive protection.
- Lam 2014 was a meta-analysis of 10 longitudinal studies; they found some protective effect. One challenge of studies, they note, is that folks with more sexual partners are at higher risk of contracting HPV. But also, folks with more sexual partners are more likely to be the ones using condoms.
There have been some studies since the Manhart review that are indicative of condom impact:
- Winer et al. (2006): Among 82 newly sexually active university women followed prospectively, they found a significant impact from consistent condom use: "Women whose partners used condoms for all instances of vaginal intercourse during the previous eight months were 70 percent less likely to acquire a new infection than were women whose partners used condoms less than 5 percent of the time, after adjustment for the number of new partners and the estimated number of previous partners of the male partner."
- HPV Infection in Men (HIM) Study: "The risk of HPV acquisition was 2-fold lower among men with no steady sex partner who always used condoms, compared with those who never used condoms (hazard ratio, 0.54), after adjustment for country, age, race, education duration, smoking, alcohol, and number of recent sex partners."
- Valasoulis et al. (2022): examined long-term outcomes in women after treatment for pre-cancerous tissue caused by HPV. At 2-year follow-up, only 13% of women with ≥90% condom compliance tested HPV-positive compared to 71% of non-compliant women.20
I think it's probably fair to assume that condoms are moderately protective, but by no means fully protective.
Social norming
If you want to base your behavior on others' behavior, here's what I've seen so far:
- Most of my more poly-experienced / sexually-experienced partners have been unconcerned when I told them I had HPV. I get the sense that most people who have a lot of sex treat it as "the common cold" of STIs (this is also how my doctor characterizes it), and they don't much care that I have it, even when I mention I have a higher-risk strain. Condom use preference has varied and seemed driven by other factors.
- My less experienced partners were more cautious. At least one of them did not want to have penetrative sex until being vaccinated, and even after that still wasn't sure fucking would be worth the risk unless we expected to be together long-term. They were fine with kissing and oral.
- All sex parties I have attended have had no requirements around HPV testing or disclosure, given how low-risk it is considered to be.
Other facts that may be useful
- About 6.5 out of every 100,000 women die of cervical cancer each year.21 This is global; the death rate should be lower for high-SDI countries. In the U.S. it is 2.4 deaths per 100,000.
- For comparison, in the U.S. in 2022, we had ~13.8 deaths per 100,000 people due to car crashes. Of course, if you don't drive much or drive especially safely, your risk from car crashes could be significantly lower. (Link)
- Prevalence of HPV types: the most common HPV types in the general population are not the high-risk ones. HPV-16 was found in only 1.5% of women aged 14–59. See footnote for more prevalences.22